Jealousy

Jealousy

Jealousy is what we call selfishness. Such behavior stems from an greedy behavior and a lack of deep understanding of one’s own identity.

There are many things that make people jealous: –

• People become jealous failing to become a good person .
• When people hate the fate of their lives that becomes beyond their control, they may develop a tendency to be jealous.
• They can become jealous when they lose someone they love and can’t prepare themselves for love again.
• People who see a great position in others or see success in others develop a tendency to be jealous when they think they can’t get there themselves or give up after trying a lot or a little it can be.

The behavior of jealousy is always a wrong. Because you are neither inferior nor superior to anyone unless you make yourself inferior. There is no need to be jealous.

Some of the negative effects of jealousy are:-

1. Destroys your happiness: – If you are jealous and get something or try and lose it, it will not give you happiness. If you live full of jealousy, you can never be perfectly happy because human desires will have no limits. 
2. If you are jealous, you end up wasting your time in trying to be superior than anyone. Because, there will always be somebody to be jealous of when it comes to competition.
3. Forgetting Your Identity:- As jealousy grows in you, you will forget your identity.
4. Lack of self-confidence
5. It increases in you the hatred that is the source of anger.
6. There are many things like not being able to improve your life.
7. Failure to love:- jealousy does not exist where there is love. Love cannot coexist with jealousy in one’s heart.

Despair

Jealousy grows in you when you start thinking about things you have lost and despaired. When you see what you lose and other people who have it and you start grumbling to yourself that ‘I deserved this, or this, should be mine.’ This includes a lack of self-worth, or a lack of deep understanding of the abilities you have and who you really are.

Recovery

Knowing Your Real Identity

If you take the time to listen to yourself, it will be easier for you to learn what you want inside. And also how to live your life, which way to go, and what you deserve. A person who calms down and listens to his thoughts is a self-loving person.

People are very judgmental of jealous people everywhere in the world. So, anyone can laugh, judge and mock a jealous person because everyone hates bad behavior. The reality but can be different. A jealous person doesn’t like being jealous. While others do not even see this trait in themselves even if they do have. But knowing this, the next time you see someone jealous of you, or when you start to be jealous of yourself; you can recognize this and change the other person with love and understanding.

Love destroys jealous behavior. If you are jealous, you can increase your happiness by practicing to love that person and by showing love to him/her if he/she is jealous of you.

You can completely delete this character. Because you are beautiful enough, great, lovable, just like everyone else. You can choose to love over jealousy. And don’t be mean to someone who is jealous of you. And loving someone has no losses but gains.